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jeanathon · 03-02-2023, 18:02

Well it was starting to look like the proverbial accident you just can't look away from. So probably best it's gone.
But on the music video angle... Here you go.

How are you all embedding the video???

jeanathon · 03-02-2023, 18:07

https://youtu.be/JBmpuWT7xjY

**boatman61** · 03-02-2023, 18:15

https://m

**boatman61** · 03-02-2023, 18:25

Choose your video/music and start it playing then click on and save the htpps:// link in the bar..

Seems the typeface screws the video image
https://music.youtube.com/watchv=dV3...lsLHCcG0tv9PRg

jeanathon · 03-02-2023, 18:33

Thanks Boatie!

HeywoodJ · 03-02-2023, 18:47

Quote:

Originally Posted by jeanathon

https://youtu.be/JBmpuWT7xjY

Your link doesn’t embed because it is “Youtu.be”, has to be a “youtube.com” link to embed. Quirk of the forum software and what it recognizes. Look at the link in the top of the embedded video. Boatie’s method works because once you start the music it resolves the youtu.be to youtube.com.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JBmpuWT7xjY

JoetheCobbler · 03-02-2023, 22:57

Perhaps the "accused" printed out the defamation and cc'd it to his attys and they made a phone call !
Perhaps the op deleted it.
To avoid legal issues.

jeanathon · 04-02-2023, 03:57

I wish I could delete some of the stupid stuff I've said on here, but that power is of a higher power....

SVTatia · 04-02-2023, 06:37

Quote:

Originally Posted by jeanathon

I wish I could delete some of the stupid stuff I've said on here, but that power is of a higher power....

Yeah but hows the search coming along, getting warmer? Give us some update, as you can see we are kinda worried you'll never find it.

jeanathon · 04-02-2023, 06:50

I got quite close. I swear I could smell it for a second, but lost it. I guess it will be one of life's mysteries like putting 2 socks in the dryer and only one comes back out.

**boatman61** · 04-02-2023, 07:42

Never smell your finger mate..
Makes folk suspicious..

grantmc · 04-02-2023, 09:29

OMG I found it, I found it, (I poked my finger in to my ..., sniffed hard (some sniggered but I persevered), and sure enough, there it was)

In December 2022 I wanted to have a quick sailing adventure, crewing on a private sailboat to see the Exuma island chain in the Bahamas. I got on Crewbay.com and found ***redacted*** and his Beneteau ***redacted*** , who was near Nassau and heading South. I have been crew before and had wonderful times with wonderful boat owners.

Not this time, sadly.

As it turned out, this trip ended on January 13th when I was forced by Nick, at gunpoint, to jump off his sailboat and swim for my life to a small Cay around 50 miles NorthWest of Georgetown as he motored away with all my belongings. My iPhone and iPad were already tossed overboard, and I had only my passport and wallet in a fanny pack, a lucky stroke to even have that.

From the start, in Nassau, I knew it was not going to be a great trip. His windlass didn’t work, his headsail was broken and did not work, his wind gauge was erroneous, just bad signs everywhere. But, I had prepaid my airfare and could not really afford to blow $500 more to get home, so I hoped for the best. Nick was (in my opinion) a nasty, negative, lonely old man, denigrating anyone and everyone…people with dogs on their boat, people with kids on their boat, with loads of profanity laced diatribes about just about everything. He was also non communicative… no crew briefings, no plan, no ability to even read Navionics to find fun spots to stop. Not so germane to what happened, but those early signs were an immediate damper on the goal of a fun-filled saunter through the Exumas.

The terrifying events started as we left Farmer’s Cay, when I did not see that one hatch at the bow was closed but not dogged. As a result some water got in as we chopped through the cut. He immediately started laying into me, berating and ragging on me for over an hour, as I sat there like a stone, praying it would not escalate. I figured if I gave him no direct confrontation, it would pass. But I got scared and started texting another boat owner we had met (to remain unnamed as he has a wife and kids aboard) to please contact the coast guard, that I felt very threatened. I did not obviously know Nick had a handgun on board at that point, but I was really scared. To his credit, the other boat owner contacted the authorities, but when Nick found out, my $1200 iPhone went overboard. I kept at it on my cellular iPad, and guess what, that went in the ocean soon afterwards.

We were a half mile offshore in the ocean and Nick told me I had two choices: jump overboard there and then, or he would dump me at whatever small Cay was closest. I said we should wait for the cops to show up and we could work through it. That lasted five minutes, and he ordered me to pack my bags as he gunned the engine for the cut at Little Darby Cay. I started filming everything on my GoPro and that sadly enraged him, and after a scuffle to get past me (I thought was going for the knife drawer), he pulled the gun and all ‘discussion’ was over. I was at that point begging for my life.

He blew into the cut, grounded the boat trying to get to shore, then at gunpoint made me throw my GoPro and my VHF radio overboard, then he pointed the gun at my head (laser sight not a good thing when it is on you) and told me to jump, now. It was yes sir, I’m going, as you can imagine. About 50 yards off a tiny beach I jumped, and swam for my life.

I made it ashore with nothing but that, shorts and a t shirt, then it took me two hours to find a house on the Cay that had a VHF there, and I radioed the sailor who had I had texted and he said a fast boat from Georgetown was heading my way. I did find a person eventually, and got sheltered at another house where a research outpost couple minds the store. At 7:30PM the fast boat arrived. They transported me back to Georgetown, and I spent 3 hours giving a detailed report to the police.

I spent the night on the couch of the Peace and Plenty hotel next to the Government building, and the next morning the kind ladies at the Tourism board arranged for American to get me out on the next flight home, with everyone saying they take this VERY seriously. Hah, right.

It took me a week, following Nick’s inReach and MarineTraffic track (he never turned it off amazingly), to get the Bahamian authorities to arrest him, but by the next evening he was out and free, and the authorities have not even bothered to call me to go over what can be done or why they let him go.

In hindsight, if he had just said up front he didn’t want me as crew and would get me home, I would have gone, I just couldn’t afford the ticket. Now of course that would have saved me about $5000 in stolen luggage and electronics (and the psychological trauma involved), but as I cannot see the future, there was no way for me to predict the rage and gun and assault.

I tell this story publicly (and I have loads of supporting evidence to back it up, I would not name him and his boat otherwise) partly to warn the sailing community about this dangerous man, but also to encourage both boat owners (who are taking on crew for companionship, watches, anchoring help etc) and crew looking to get on private boats (for fun, adventure or to gain miles) to be sure to do due diligence, both ways. For crew, remember that there is a huge power dynamic, the owner holds all the cards and if they want you off the boat, you will be getting off. Will they pay to repatriate you? I believe they are supposed to by some law or another, but if they don’t, I doubt any government will hold them accountable. The Bahamas clearly did not in this case.